Over the centuries older men have been dating women young enough to be their daughters and in current times, older women have gotten bolder and dated men young enough to be their sons. This trend commonly known as granny dating is getting popular as the years advance because society is slowly getting used to seeing these scenarios.
However, just like any other relationship, dating grannies comes with advantages and disadvantages as discussed below.
Advantages
A Learning Opportunity
If she is achievement oriented, she will definitely teach you all that. You will of course get to learn more about sex and how to please a woman more because many older women will definitely tell you what they expect from you and even show you how to do it!As a young man dating this older woman, there is a lot to gain in terms of learning. This is a sophisticated, mature woman with lots of experience under her belt on various aspects of life. From simple life lessons such as how to treat a woman right, to the more complicated matters such as how to invest wisely.
Less Drama
The older woman is less needy and more independent; she isn’t hell-bent on turning you into the perfect gentleman. Unlike the younger women, she will not demand a lot from you and throw “tantrums” because you didn’t comment on her outfit, or remember her birthday and take her out. The older woman is refined and mature; will never throw “tantrums”, because the relationship is a sort of haven for her busy or boring life, she will not want any drama at all.
The Money Factor
The older woman has definitely attained some success in her life and probably has a large nest egg in the form of a fat bank account and a great career. You are likely to dine in nice places and go to lovely destinations for vacations. Most of these women will generously support the young men they are dating financially. This is a welcome gesture especially with the tough economic times.
Disadvantages
Harsh Judgment From Society
The idea of an older woman dating a younger man is still frowned upon by many. Negative reactions will be witnessed from conservative friends and family and you are both likely to be social outcasts. Her family might not accept you at all and will likely view you as the opportunistic that you are or social climber.
The Children factor
If your relationship gets serious and you get married, the older woman might not want children because she either has children from a previous relationship or marriage, or she cannot have children because of biological or gynecological reasons. This might be a huge setback if you as the young man need children of your own.
Risk Of Being Manipulated
The older woman is of course smarter than you are and she is likely to manipulate you as she pleases. You might succumb to her wishes even when you don’t want because she has the skill to manipulate you or because she is your financial source. You might not have as much freedom as you might want because she is likely to be controlling every aspect of your life.
You Might Be Trapped
It will reach a point where she will get too old for you and you will want to find a younger and more vibrant partner. This might be difficult for you because you will definitely want out, but might find it difficult to break away from the relationship. How do you tell a woman that you are leaving her because she is too old? Especially, if you have been together for years?
All in all granny dating can be the experience of a lifetime. Why wait? Try it now!
